It is a beautiful thing; choice. We all have it; it was granted to us by God himself. However, with choice comes responsibility. Choice {our} impacts us it helps to shape our density.
I read something by M Hulburd that couldn’t be more true
“ Character is so largely affected by associations that we cannot afford to be indifferent as to who and what our friends are. They write their names in our albums, but they do more, they help make us what we are. Be therefore careful in selecting them; and when wisely selected, NEVER sacrifice them.”
Given my recent changes in my life and CHOICES I have made I felt like the quote tied in great with how I was feeling. The more I grow as a person and mother I realize that I have to make choices that are best for myself, my family and my daughter. Those choices include who I have in my {our} lives, as they should help to enhance my life and not create drama or undue burden. Love and relationships (ALL REALTIONSHIPS) require work, give, concern, selflessness, and sacrifice. However, this work has to be equal on both ends. If you have someone in your life who doesn’t give as much as they receive; someone who brings headaches, takes from you, drama and doesn’t enhance our life.. then mark them off your {short} friend list and place them on the acquaintance side.
You have choices and it is your responsibility to make the choices that are BEST for you… love and choice are a responsibility. THIS IS YOUR LIFE; You have choices… don’t settle in any aspect of your life
I choose my life and my loves..

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