Mommy Life Lesson #1

I haven’t blogged in a while and I felt that maybe it was time; of course with the push of my friend. Who reads this thing anyways… I don’t think anyone…

Off topic as my blog typically flows with the Pea vibe but today I’m going to address something different.

Life lesson 1 - Women…

The older I get the less I tolerate.. I mean really I’m pretty black and white cut and dry take it or leave it I don’t care. I hate Bull.. I hate dealing with it… I hate addressing it or even entertaining it. When I have had enough I am done.. I prefer to run in SMALL circles and have a couple good friends rather than a whole lot of people hanging around taking up space. I’ve learned what’s the point? You see… keeping dead weight around no matter how much you may care for people is TOXIC for your well being…

I would like to think that all women get to this point where they don’t play the caddy games anymore and grow up.. you know achieve status outside of HIGH SCHOOL MENTATLITY.. but most typically don’t. How crazy is that? I mean they hold on to things and when necessary throw it up at you..

Here are my life lessons to pass on to my love..

1) Women are caddy no matter what age.. find yourself a good guy friend to confide in and call it a day. (for mommies sake find a none diva gay man..they are the best because they aren’t trying to sleep with you). At one point you will find at LEAST 1 or 2 good girl friends..but it will be a while…. It’s not personal its real life.

2) Don’t play games with people; be honest… if they can’t accept how you feel or appreciate your honesty then they aren’t your friend… who cares chalk it up and keep it moving… You always have your family. –ahhh unconditional love!

3) Don’t take what chicks say personally. Typically they are hating on you and aren’t happy for your accomplishments. Like I said there will be a few in your life who will be TRULY happy for you however,these are few and far between so APPRECIATE THEM when you find them!

That’s it…